No Time To Think – People are always “too busy”

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Traveling a lot these days has made me wonder…are people less bored these days then in the past. Do people fill the time more now that there are so many “in-between” gadgets and toys to keep us from twiddling our thumbs:

Online chat – MSN, skype, google talk, QQ
Mobile phones – texting , talking on the phone, playing video games, surfing the web
Social media – facebook, twitter, linkedin, etc
Portable video games – sony PSP
Listening to music – ipod, iphone, mp3 player

I mean, how many people do you see reading a book! We are cramming our days with new “filler”, but is this improving our quality of life? Is it assisting the advancement of society! Even my blogging, right now I am writing this while I am in a bus stuck in traffic coming back to Shenzhen from Hong Kong. Is this blog entry going to add value in my life, and in others lives?

What did we do before we had all these high tech gadgets:

1) read a book
2) talk to a neighbor beside us on the train
4) write things down – ON PAPER

For those times we just sit and stare…..what is this – is this a waste of time? Waste of productivity? Or is it a way to destress. A way to sit back, reflect on our days, on our lives, and prioritize what it is we want with our lives…..

I really do try to stop using the net, music, twitter, facebook and others sometimes – just to hear my own mind THINK. To reflect on what it is I am doing and why. Am I just doing busy work that can be better done by someone else who specializes in it. Rather then my trying to learn to master everything ,and just keep on doing and doing and doing – I need to stop and think and reflect. Strategize….plan…….and win. I PREFER to write on a piece of paper sometimes….it just helps me think more clearly….cross things off, circle, write notes, put numbers next to one another. sure I know there is mindmap software – but I guess I’m a bit old fashioned and still appreciate seeing a physical piece of paper!

Then again, these technologies have allowed me to keep in contact with friends and family ALL OVER THE WORLD. As if they were in the room with me. Plus it helps me communicate to people whose english is not so good – they prefer chats as it allows them to read and write English – they are shy to speak it! So of course there are good things from all this internet and technology advancement, but i think it should still be used in moderation (for example I have 2 chat windows blinking on my laptop now….)

Anyway, just noticing people everywhere are in their own zone…..texting on phones, listening to music, playing on facebook – but I hope they take time to stop and think about the BIG PICTURE of life. We all have to remind ourselves to do this.

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David Ho

I still read… dammit… 1 book a month 🙂 These “fillers” are causing some problems that were relevant long before I came to China. For one – instant gratification. Kids and I would argue a good many people of our generation suffered from an inability to undertake endeavors wherein their wasn’t an immediate return on their efforts – which is a problem when you consider the kind of time line most of the meaningful progress you make in life runs on. As my mother likes to say “everything in moderation!” I think theirs more wisdom to that adage every time… Read more »


hhahaha,true !!!
before I thought you were very realistic but not too much thougt, but now seemsto find you have a rich heart and also a true person ,hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Emily Tsang

That’s exactly what I am thinking. Not saying that it is all bad, as we need to fit it the society. But I actually see it quite a horrible picture of the world. All those “fillers” are changing our generations way too much, not really all in a positive way, I should say. It widen the distance between people. Some people even dont have to expose to the “real” world in order to survive. Though I belong to the post 80s, I personally feel sick seeing people “taking care” of their high-time gadgets all the time. All these just creatre… Read more »

Emily Tsang

Some say “technology brings people together”.. and I find this statement interesting enough. Really, it can either shorten or widen the distance between ppl. It’s just there needs to be a limit line, and human’s desire in advancing life standard somehow leading them to somewhere not good for human nature.

“…appreciate seeing a piece of physical paper.. =] I even miss the art of getting a hand-written letters!